Body

You’re not willing to desperately fight to “get back” your pre-pregnancy self as if it’s a badge of honor to look like you never had a baby. 

No. 

You want to feel like the goddess incarnated - you grew life in your womb (or you will!) and you want to cherish your body’s remarkable capacities that go way beyond how you look. 

Yes. 

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Sensuality 

Even in your mom-bun, milk-stained shirt, you can feel the subtle flickering of your erotic self and you refuse to let those embers die. 

No.

Though you’re (clearly) no longer a sexy 27 year old Burning Man maiden, you’re equally clear that your most erotically alive years are ahead of you, not behind you. 

You sense that your sexuality is at a threshold, ready to deepen into a richly nuanced experience, if tended to with care

You’ve felt the deep nourishment that comes from your pleasure and you sense your pussy can breathe life back into your intensely busy days of juggling your growing family. 

Yes. 

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Relationship 

You’re not willing to let your intimate relationship become an after-thought, as you and your partner become roommates bickering over diapers, or pass kids back and forth like ships in the night. 

No. 

That will not be your love story. 

You crave deep ravishing and soulful love-making that brings you back to yourself and to your partner, again and again, no matter how intense motherhood feels. 

You know the fire between you and your partner brings warmth to the whole family, and you’re committed to stoking the flames. 

Yes. 

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Ecosystem

You’re not willing to struggle and suffer, trying to do motherhood all on your own, as if righteous independence is the highest honor. 

No. 

You’re open, ready to receive support, as you nourish yourself and your family with community and connection to nature. You crave being part of a healthy, thriving ecosystem of support, woven into and held by an ancient web of primal interdependence. 

Yes.