Girlfriends are Required for an Electric Relationship


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Women forget their value without other women reflecting it.

When women forget their inherent value,  
They start people pleasing and playing nice to keep their man. 
Try to “pay” him energetically to stick around.

He starts slacking.
He does the minimum to get the results - law of energy conservation.

She swallows her truth because she needs to be “accepting”, right?

But each spot she sees and doesn’t name, 
Becomes a subtle splinter between the two of them. 
Drawing them apart.

How do they re-ignite their passion and electricity?

She remembers her own value, with help of girlfriends. 
She comes back to her desires, 
Listening and following to the quiet voice inside.

Then she demands his very best. 
She is honest about what she sees, 
And where his brilliance is not fully expressed.

To do this, she has to risk losing him. 
When she calls his best out, she says, “I refuse to let us settle”. 
Not every man wants to be called forward like that. 
But the ones that do will rise to the top like cream on milk.

She can only do this backed by girlfriends. 
Her own urgent need to be liked and accepted MUST be met with other women. 
Otherwise she will try to get it from him and contort herself to get it.

To be her most radiant, juicy, beautiful self, 
She needs to be nourished by other women.

Without sisters, she becomes small and her man becomes mediocre. 
That’s how important sisterhood is.

Love,

Megan

Megan Lambert